You’re not broken.
You’re rebuilding.
And I’m here to help you.
Hi, I’m Peter, founder of The Rebuilders and InTheBox. We help dads navigating divorce or separation — men who feel defeated, disconnected, and unsure who they are now — rebuild confidence, clarity, and purpose by learning to lead with vulnerability, not hide behind it.
This isn’t about blaming your ex or pretending everything’s fine. It’s about turning pain into power, learning to communicate with honesty and strength, and creating a grounded, peaceful life for you and your kids.
I’ve lived it. I’ve made the mistakes. And for the past three years, I’ve coached hundreds of dads who’ve rebuilt their lives from the ground up.
At The Rebuilders, we believe vulnerability is the doorway to strength, connection, and a life you’re proud to live. If you’re ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding — for your kids and yourself — you’re in the right place.
Join our community and grab your free Single Dad Self-Care Guide to start your rebuilding journey today.
Peter is the father of twin boys, a purpose-driven entrepreneur, a content creator, a community builder, and a coach. Peter is passionate about connecting people, seeing the best in people, standing for people's greatness, and making a positive impact on people’s lives and in the world. A firm believer in the magic of the ripple effect, Peter thinks that when we make a difference — however large or small — for one human being, we have no idea just how many others will benefit. Peter was raised in Oakland and graduated from UCLA. He loves Bruin basketball; observing wildlife; caring for animals (adopt, don’t shop); singing karaoke; listening to and telling good stories; laughing; and learning about people, history, and the world.
I'm always in your corner.
I’ve been on the roller coaster ride that was the break up of my family unit.
I've learned a lot about what it takes to find one's footing again, rebuild one's life, and find oneself when it all felt impossible in the beginning.
I found my purpose in likely the darkest chapter of my life. Going through a breakup or divorce when kids are involved is heartbreaking. It is painful, confusing, stressful... it levels you.
I started doing TikTok videos nearly two years ago because it was hard to find support. It started initially as an online journal. I shared my experience publicly — the sadness, the anger, the blame, the shame, all of it — so others would see that they weren't alone and that it’s completely normal to feel all of those feelings. Over time, I started sharing tips and interview clips with others who had gone through this, along with motivational videos and comic-relief videos.
Those videos led to hundreds of calls and Zooms and texts and messages with single parents all over the world who had seen a video of mine and were feeling the same things. They were looking for support — to be heard, validated, and understood.
I started coaching single parents who felt stuck and alone, like they had failed, but who were also up for taking new actions in their lives.
I started a free weekly virtual support group that meets every Tuesday and Wednesday and provides a lot of value for the dads who show up.
Next to being a dad, which is my favorite thing in the world, this is my purpose: To empower dads going through separation or divorce as they navigate the breakup of their families and find their way to rebuilding a life they love.
What people are saying
"I found Peter as I was scrolling through TikTok. He was the only channel I found that seemed to actively care about men’s mental health. I was separated and having a rough time navigating the uncharted waters. He told me about his weekly support meetings and I decided to give it a try. I’m so very glad I did. I thought I’d be shy at first but I found the group very welcoming. By the end of it, I was fully communicating my personal situation completely free of judgment. I was so relieved to realize that I wasn’t alone. That was the heaviest weight I’d been carrying. Through the group I feel as though that weight has gotten lighter. I’m very grateful to have stumbled upon this great group of supportive individuals. I’ve been attending for about a year now and have no plans of stopping."
- Kevin from Virginia