You’re not broken.
You’re rebuilding.
And I’m here to help you.
Hi, I’m Peter, founder of The Rebuilders. I help parents navigating divorce or separation — parents who feel defeated, disconnected, and unsure who they are now — rebuild confidence, clarity, and purpose by learning to lead with vulnerability, not hide behind it.
This isn’t about blaming your ex or pretending everything’s fine. It’s about turning pain into purpose; learning to communicate with honesty and strength; and creating a grounded, peaceful life for you and your kids.
I’ve lived it. I’ve made the mistakes. And for the past three years, I’ve coached hundreds of parents who’ve rebuilt their lives from the ground up.
All of us at The Rebuilders believe vulnerability is the doorway to strength, connection, and a life you’re proud to live. If you’re ready to stop surviving and start rebuilding — for your kids and yourself — you’re in the right place.
Sign up for our newsletter, book a 30-minute reset call with me, and start your rebuilding journey today.
I’m the father of twin boys, a purpose-driven entrepreneur, a content creator, a community builder, and a coach. My passions include connecting people, seeing the best in people, standing for people's greatness, and making a positive impact on people’s lives and in the world. A firm believer in the magic of the ripple effect, I think that when we make a difference — however large or small — for one human being, we have no idea just how many others will benefit. I was raised in Oakland and graduated from UCLA. I love Bruin basketball; observing wildlife; caring for animals (adopt, don’t shop); singing karaoke; listening to and telling good stories; laughing; and learning about people, history, and the world.
I’ve been on the roller coaster ride that was the break up of my family unit.
I've learned a lot about what it takes to find one's footing again, rebuild one's life, and find oneself when it all felt impossible in the beginning.
I found my purpose in likely the darkest chapter of my life. Going through a breakup or divorce when kids are involved is heartbreaking. It is painful, confusing, stressful... it levels you.
I started doing TikTok videos nearly two years ago because it was hard to find support. It started initially as an online journal. I shared my experience publicly — the sadness, the anger, the blame, the shame, all of it — so others would see that they weren't alone and that it’s completely normal to feel all of those feelings. Over time, I started sharing tips and interview clips with others who had gone through this, along with motivational videos and comic-relief videos.
Those videos led to hundreds of calls and Zooms and texts and messages with single parents all over the world who had seen a video of mine and were feeling the same things. They were looking for support — to be heard, validated, and understood.
I started coaching single parents who felt stuck and alone, like they had failed, but who were also up for taking new actions in their lives.
I started a free weekly virtual support group that meets every Tuesday and Wednesday and provides great value for the parents who show up.
Next to being a dad, which is my favorite thing in the world, this is my purpose: To empower parents going through separation or divorce as they navigate the breakup of their families and find their way to rebuilding a life they love.
I'm always
in your corner.
What people are saying
"Peter and the whole Rebuilders community has been such a tool and revelation to my self-esteem. Peter makes the process feel like you are talking with a close friend of 10+ years and not just a coach. The guys in the community are tight-knit and unified through Peter and all of our similarities in our lives, marriages, and separations. This truly feels like a group of guys who look out for one another and give thoughtful criticism and kind words on various problems we as dads and single men face. Peter is really onto something and has never been biased to either side when talking about spouses and the problems that arise. If you are having a hard time or even in the middle of a divorce or separation, get in contact with Peter. The guy has been a saving grace to my sanity and a dear friend to me through this process.”
- Shawn from Florida